SenatorBinks27
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These must be emotional issues coming up which have little to do with the exact shape of the situation at hand. Would likely happen in some form with any partner and any flat.
Which is very much in line with what you and I have been discussing. Anxiety for change, for the routine to slip, is very common and can be difficult enough on its own without the importance that comes with this decision. Doesn't mean you should never trust anxiety, just don't use it on its own as proof it's a bad idea.