under_moonlight
New member
You can call me Moon or Selenite, I am a cis female who just turned 30 over the summer (I won't update my age over time so do the math - if the post has aged I have as well) and I live in the Central Jersey area (USA)
I'm still questioning my full sexuality, but at the moment I feel like I most identify as pansexual. I was in a monogamous relationship with my husband since 2012, got married in 2017, and opened up to dating on our own in late 2020. I am also in a a relationship with another partner as of early this year (2021) and just transitioned to a long distance relationship with him a few months ago when he moved. I have honestly not had any experience with anyone but men (all cis), but I have always been attracted to other women. More recently I have discovered that there is not one or two particular places my attraction falls on the gender spectrum between the two which is why I feel I find myself being drawn to the pansexual identity. I am always open for conversation and education on this subject hoenstly as someone new to identifying in such a way.
I think there will never again be a time where I am not 'open' to new partners, but I do have time constraints at the moment that may make it difficult to make the necessary time for fostering new relationships. I currently work full time and just finished my Bachelors in Business Administration after returning to school. I hopefully will start pursuing my Masters this Fall, and have wild dreams of eventually maybe pursuing my PhD in the far away future. In addition to this I also am involved in my community on volunteer level.
For leisure, I really enjoy hiking (though I am not a pro) and just being out in nature in general. I am a sucker for a water feature (i.e. the sea, a lake, a waterfall, etc) and I love hikes with a lot of flora & fauna to admire. I enjoy kayaking and swimming as well when its warm enough (I'm not a fan of cold weather). I do have a garden, but all I have had success in growing really is some pumpkins maybe. I like to listen to audio books and podcasts, read manga and webtoons, and watch some shows and anime. I do not craft or make art as often as I would like to or used to, but every once and a while I will end up making something when a particular creative feeling strikes.
I have also recently been attending munches in the area and am new to the kink scene. I'm not sure I'd ever 'play' with anyone other than a romantic partner, but I have found the community to be welcoming, engaging, and accepting. I am particularly interested in rope, though I have never experienced tying someone up or being tied up.
A last notable fact about myself is that I was diagnosed as a young child with what is now known as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) 1. Though people have mentioned I 'look so put together' it had had a significant impact on how I interact with others and my mental health.
I look forward to getting to know people here in the community. That is what I'm mostly looking for out of this site. I have only come out to my one sister and a few close friends about this new part of my identity (both partners are okay with that at this time), and I sometimes find myself wanting perspective/insight from other polyamorous people that aren't my partners. Hopefully I can find that here!
Warm Regards,
Moon
I'm still questioning my full sexuality, but at the moment I feel like I most identify as pansexual. I was in a monogamous relationship with my husband since 2012, got married in 2017, and opened up to dating on our own in late 2020. I am also in a a relationship with another partner as of early this year (2021) and just transitioned to a long distance relationship with him a few months ago when he moved. I have honestly not had any experience with anyone but men (all cis), but I have always been attracted to other women. More recently I have discovered that there is not one or two particular places my attraction falls on the gender spectrum between the two which is why I feel I find myself being drawn to the pansexual identity. I am always open for conversation and education on this subject hoenstly as someone new to identifying in such a way.
I think there will never again be a time where I am not 'open' to new partners, but I do have time constraints at the moment that may make it difficult to make the necessary time for fostering new relationships. I currently work full time and just finished my Bachelors in Business Administration after returning to school. I hopefully will start pursuing my Masters this Fall, and have wild dreams of eventually maybe pursuing my PhD in the far away future. In addition to this I also am involved in my community on volunteer level.
For leisure, I really enjoy hiking (though I am not a pro) and just being out in nature in general. I am a sucker for a water feature (i.e. the sea, a lake, a waterfall, etc) and I love hikes with a lot of flora & fauna to admire. I enjoy kayaking and swimming as well when its warm enough (I'm not a fan of cold weather). I do have a garden, but all I have had success in growing really is some pumpkins maybe. I like to listen to audio books and podcasts, read manga and webtoons, and watch some shows and anime. I do not craft or make art as often as I would like to or used to, but every once and a while I will end up making something when a particular creative feeling strikes.
I have also recently been attending munches in the area and am new to the kink scene. I'm not sure I'd ever 'play' with anyone other than a romantic partner, but I have found the community to be welcoming, engaging, and accepting. I am particularly interested in rope, though I have never experienced tying someone up or being tied up.
A last notable fact about myself is that I was diagnosed as a young child with what is now known as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) 1. Though people have mentioned I 'look so put together' it had had a significant impact on how I interact with others and my mental health.
I look forward to getting to know people here in the community. That is what I'm mostly looking for out of this site. I have only come out to my one sister and a few close friends about this new part of my identity (both partners are okay with that at this time), and I sometimes find myself wanting perspective/insight from other polyamorous people that aren't my partners. Hopefully I can find that here!
Warm Regards,
Moon