Hi,
So my husband and I are about 9 months into poly. I started out with 2 partners, but one was just sex and the other was just play, no sex. I wanted an emotional connection…
My husband couldn’t find anyone for a few months. He then found this lady that is a counselor. They are the same age. I’m 23 years younger than my husband.
I found a partner that fit everything I needed and then out of nowhere, after strong bonding emotionally, he said he couldn’t date. He had personal issues.
Now my husband has found this lady partner and she has HSV2. I’m clean. She always tries to counsel our relationship.
She wants to see him more. We agreed to every other weekend and now he wants more time with her.
I’m scared to sleep with my husband in fear I will get HSV2 and guys I’ve told about my husband's partner run away. As a result, I can’t find a partner. So I’ve given up. But im jealous that my husband has a partner and I don’t. We have kids and our relationship isn’t working well, yet he still asked for 2 weekends in a row.
I'm so lost… I'm hoping I can find some advice here! Thanks y’all for listening.
So my husband and I are about 9 months into poly. I started out with 2 partners, but one was just sex and the other was just play, no sex. I wanted an emotional connection…
My husband couldn’t find anyone for a few months. He then found this lady that is a counselor. They are the same age. I’m 23 years younger than my husband.
I found a partner that fit everything I needed and then out of nowhere, after strong bonding emotionally, he said he couldn’t date. He had personal issues.
Now my husband has found this lady partner and she has HSV2. I’m clean. She always tries to counsel our relationship.
She wants to see him more. We agreed to every other weekend and now he wants more time with her.
I’m scared to sleep with my husband in fear I will get HSV2 and guys I’ve told about my husband's partner run away. As a result, I can’t find a partner. So I’ve given up. But im jealous that my husband has a partner and I don’t. We have kids and our relationship isn’t working well, yet he still asked for 2 weekends in a row.
I'm so lost… I'm hoping I can find some advice here! Thanks y’all for listening.
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