I am so sensitive to the narcissism angle of Trump, having been in a long term relationship with one. He did a good job pretending to be human to me (hell, he was a smart guy and Aspie, and had learned to pretend to have neuro-typical human emotions), for as long as it served his purposes. He wanted sex, he wanted an activities partner, he wanted entertainment and relief from the boredom and emptiness of his own company. He wanted attention and admiration (which to him, was love).
He even got my partner to love him for the laid back, "pagan," cool and sexy, artistic vibe he projected.
But I learned he was only play-acting when, after his NRE for me/us wore off, he chose to date a married MF couple new to poly. He enjoyed the drama of triangulating them against each other, and triangulating them against me, and even trying to triangulate me against my own dear partner.
He also did more and more oddly sexual things in public that were inappropriate and embarrassing to me. All unaware, or not caring, or maybe being turned on by, how those behaviors were being viewed by non-consenting adults and even children.
Narcissists are a lost cause. Most, if not all, of them feel they are wonderful people. They have absolutely no empathy. Some can pretend to have normal empathy and consciences. Trump is pretending to care about others... women, other ethnic groups who are legitimate members of our country and society, children, the handicapped. But as soon as they infringe on what he considers to come first, himself and his needs, he throws them under the bus, using words like law and order, safety, borders, make America great again.
He's always been a joke to me. His arrogance, his rudeness and disgusting crassness, his gold towers and golden throne-like chairs and toilets. I feel sad for anyone who admires him and wishes they had a life like he does.
Those 2 grown sons of his. They are being compared to the fictional protagonist of the book/movie American Psycho. If they inherited their dad's narcissism, either from biology or nurture, I really can see them cutting up women with chainsaws just for their own sick jaded pleasure. And yes, all 3 of them can get away with it because they are "rich," from having robbed from normal hard-working people and amassing dollars by playing the system, exploiting loopholes to not pay taxes, etc.
Orange Hitler, indeed.
Donald lives, as Hillary said, in his own world. Our world isn't real to him. He lies at the drop of a hat. He believes his own lies. He gets that delicious approbation from his fans, which pumps up his ego and make him feel so right and so big (despite his own small "hands"). But he will even turn on his own fans on a dime. Remember how he played that woman with the crying baby?
His party is withdrawing from him. Many many conservatives are almost as shocked and appalled by him as we liberals are! In some ways they might be even more appalled, as they should be. Trump has exposed the classist, misogynist underbelly of their party for the entire world to see. Ha! They should be embarrassed.
The only problem is, Hillary is made out by some political players to be corrupt because she has been playing the game of politics. She is not the first to use private servers and delete emails. The George W Bush administration "lost" 22 million private emails! It's nothing new. No one noticed.
http://www.newsweek.com/2016/09/23/george-w-bush-white-house-lost-22-million-emails-497373.html
Her choice is being used by the alt right to make her seem just as, or more "crooked" than Trump. What a joke. There is no comparison. She's no Bernie Sanders (who I voted for), but come on, millennials! Look at the alternative.
Trump uses small words and repeats catch phrases to lure and lull his fans. Short words you'd used with a toddler. "Bad," "great," "a great guy, I love him," "law and order," "wrong," "lock her up"-- it goes on and on.
Hillary's husband's choice to date other women is now being used by Trump to make him seem like just as much of an immoral creep/pig. It seems obvious to me, Bill and Hillary have a comfortable mono/poly relationship. It just seems immoral to the public, but we here know it can be quite an ethical choice. As someone said, every king ever has had mistresses! (Barack Obama probably excepted, but look at what a wonderful and gorgeous and fantastic wife he knows he is lucky enough to have! sigh... It is obvious he worships the ground she walks on.) Bill is, imo, handsome, charming, charismatic as hell, smart, funny, loving. I have read about his peccadillos and affairs and I see no evidence of rape. At worst, I see consenting women who may have said yes, but then changed their minds and said no, to sexual activities. Case closed. We've all been there.
So when I hear well meaning (but under educated and lacking judgment) women friends and acquaintances of mine say, "Trump's a pig, but Hillary is just as bad," "we are screwed," and they can't vote for either, I just have to sadly roll my eyes at their lack of perspective, and walk away before I take them by the shoulders and try to shake some sense into them.