I have a reasonable sex drive...want it most days with the occasional day off, and the occasional day of more than once. Blue has a higher drive...and more available time than me. That isn't why we're open, but being open does help. Like Magdyln said...it takes the pressure off me Plus, variety helps, too
Sex drive is so subjective! All I want is one sex session a day. Hell, I'd be thrilled to get it 3 times a week (especially if they were good solid sessions with many orgasms for this multi orgasmic girl, and not 10 minute quickies)! And my gf (in times past) once accused me of being a sex addict. You call wanting sex every day "reasonable." And your bf wants it what? 2-3 times a day? Wow, sure puts things in perspective.
I get it, on average, once or twice a week from my gf/partner. I've been working and working (see my blog) to get a bit more sex from various men I've been dating. Finally getting something regular going with one guy, Punk, (knock wood) who I hopefully will continue to see once a week and get 2 solid sex/kink sessions on our hours-long date. Dear Aphrodite, is that so much to ask out of life? lol