nycindie
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Ugh, I logged on to OKC just briefly today, to copy some of my profile that I want to keep, which of course triggered their notification system that I was online. Within minutes, I got three messages. They were all sub-par. Two were just "hi" and "hello," and the pics clearly showed men of a physical type that I do not find attractive.
The third one rambled a bit, but I could not see the pic and it was a little weird looking, and his message was rather incoherent, but for some reason I was curious. I clicked on his profile - Egad! I won't do that again. What is up with these guys who just do not think their appearance or a nice picture matters? First of all, his forehead and brow were extremely Neanderthal-like. In fact, I've never seen anyone with such a protruding brow. It looks like horror-movie makeup. I wonder if it is? A lot of guys seem to like pictures of themselves in Halloween costumes. But I think it's real.
Not that I don't sympathize with someone who is unfortunate in the looks department, but try a little grooming! This guy's wild, frizzy, long grey hair and unruly beard were all over the place. It was a photo beyond imagination.
I am not one of those women who automatically dislikes beards and mustaches. I like bearded, mustachioed men as long as the facial hair compliments them well, but they do need to be groomed! There was a man I met on vacation with such a long grey beard, that other people around us teased him and called him Santa - but it was neat and combed and trimmed evenly - but I was attracted to him, though he was probably 4 inches shorter than I. Plus he had a great personality.
BUT the guy on OKC today - well, it's amazing that anyone would put a pic like this in their profile, let alone walk around like that. He's scary looking, even scarier than Ted Kaczynski. I don't think this guy ever trims, brushes, nor combs his beard, mustache, and hair - seriously. He has whiskers growing out of his cheekbones. And it's all frizzy and tangled. Could not ever imagine kissing someone like that or being in bed with them... eww, just eww. Plus, he said he's 60, but he looks about 75, his deep-set eyes were cloudy and looking in two different directions, he was wearing a ratty old, worn-out sweater in the pic, and his message to me was one disjointed long mess of conspiracy theories and self-praise. I deleted it so I can't share it here. Thank goodness, he lives outside the city, so there is little chance I will ever run into him. <sigh> Blocked, hidden, deleted.
All these things add up to make me wonder why it's such slim pickin's here in NYC. I see handsome men walking around all the time, why aren't they on OKC?
Why me? Either what I attract on OKC just sucks and I really should never login there again, or his profile is a joke. A terrible, terrible joke!
The third one rambled a bit, but I could not see the pic and it was a little weird looking, and his message was rather incoherent, but for some reason I was curious. I clicked on his profile - Egad! I won't do that again. What is up with these guys who just do not think their appearance or a nice picture matters? First of all, his forehead and brow were extremely Neanderthal-like. In fact, I've never seen anyone with such a protruding brow. It looks like horror-movie makeup. I wonder if it is? A lot of guys seem to like pictures of themselves in Halloween costumes. But I think it's real.
Not that I don't sympathize with someone who is unfortunate in the looks department, but try a little grooming! This guy's wild, frizzy, long grey hair and unruly beard were all over the place. It was a photo beyond imagination.
I am not one of those women who automatically dislikes beards and mustaches. I like bearded, mustachioed men as long as the facial hair compliments them well, but they do need to be groomed! There was a man I met on vacation with such a long grey beard, that other people around us teased him and called him Santa - but it was neat and combed and trimmed evenly - but I was attracted to him, though he was probably 4 inches shorter than I. Plus he had a great personality.
BUT the guy on OKC today - well, it's amazing that anyone would put a pic like this in their profile, let alone walk around like that. He's scary looking, even scarier than Ted Kaczynski. I don't think this guy ever trims, brushes, nor combs his beard, mustache, and hair - seriously. He has whiskers growing out of his cheekbones. And it's all frizzy and tangled. Could not ever imagine kissing someone like that or being in bed with them... eww, just eww. Plus, he said he's 60, but he looks about 75, his deep-set eyes were cloudy and looking in two different directions, he was wearing a ratty old, worn-out sweater in the pic, and his message to me was one disjointed long mess of conspiracy theories and self-praise. I deleted it so I can't share it here. Thank goodness, he lives outside the city, so there is little chance I will ever run into him. <sigh> Blocked, hidden, deleted.
All these things add up to make me wonder why it's such slim pickin's here in NYC. I see handsome men walking around all the time, why aren't they on OKC?
Why me? Either what I attract on OKC just sucks and I really should never login there again, or his profile is a joke. A terrible, terrible joke!