My metamour Kay, wants to have her handfasting ceremony with our hinge (B) on the same day as my wedding, possibly part of the same ceremony. I have already stated that she should have her own day (and so should I). That did not go over well and I am under some pressure to change my mind. We all live together but I don't see myself as part of a group marriage, more like roommates that get along fairly well. Except for the silent treatment I am getting now from Kay.....
How did others that have a hinge relationship deal with ceremonies? I would like to take some ideas back to the next family discussion we have on this issue.
We all have very much the same group of friends, barring a few relatives. Our hinge, being a practical type, says he thinks we can get it all done at one time..... (insert eye roll). Romantic gestures are not his strong point.
We are not kids, everyone is in their 60's.
How did others that have a hinge relationship deal with ceremonies? I would like to take some ideas back to the next family discussion we have on this issue.
We all have very much the same group of friends, barring a few relatives. Our hinge, being a practical type, says he thinks we can get it all done at one time..... (insert eye roll). Romantic gestures are not his strong point.
We are not kids, everyone is in their 60's.