Sounds like you're making a good effort to make things work.
It's not unheard-of for long-time partners to "mellow out" in terms of how hot they feel about sex with each other, after all, they don't have the NRE to fire things up. Sometimes people shift over to enjoying other things more, like a shared sense of security and/or knowing each other very well.
Your partner still strongly values sex which is also not unusual. Everyone is different, has different needs, etc.
It sounds like you guys are starting to work some things out. That's good to hear.
It's not unheard-of for long-time partners to "mellow out" in terms of how hot they feel about sex with each other, after all, they don't have the NRE to fire things up. Sometimes people shift over to enjoying other things more, like a shared sense of security and/or knowing each other very well.
Your partner still strongly values sex which is also not unusual. Everyone is different, has different needs, etc.
It sounds like you guys are starting to work some things out. That's good to hear.