My name is Jay and I'm in a vee with my wife as the hinge. To say it was unexpected is an understatement, both for me and my wife, as she wasn't looking for anything with anyone.
She is a musician and an Australian DJ began playing her songs on his weekly show. They began talking online and he suggested she co-host a show with him. She agreed and soon they began talking over the phone and one thing lead to another and they fell in love.
Now, we had discussed the idea of polyamory some time ago and I was always under the impression that we would form a triad with a man or woman (we are both bisexual). But it seems my wife had other ideas as she tried a couple of times to forge a relationship with others.
This one, however, has taken off. Though it's long distance, and it's highly unlikely that they will ever actually meet, it is very intense and, admittedly, I feel somewhat put on the back burner. This will hopefully change if and when C (the other arm of the vee) will talk to me as I've tried to talk to him. (He suffers from PTSD relating to his childhood because of his blindness). Anyway, I'll post more about my feelings and anxieties in the relationship thread when I work up the courage to bare my soul.
Hi and welcome to the forum. You may want to post an intro in the introduction forum section to get more input.Hi everyone,
I've been sent over here from the Hotwives Forum as my interests are more around polyamory.
I'm a 43 year old British woman, happily married to my husband for nearly 10 years. We have two young children.
My husband became very interesting in hotwifing but after an experience with another man, I think I'm much more interested in polyamory. Forgive my ignorance with the terminology (I've had a look at the glossary - very helpful!). I'm not sure if I'm a poly virgin or not, if I've had one sexual encounter with another man. Does that count?
I would like to have more ethical relationships in addition to my marriage in the future. I'd like to stay married to my husband and keep that as my primary relationship.
Looking for some support with a move into this lifestyle.
Thank you! SM xxx