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I have been married for 8 years. I am in my mid 30s and she is in her late 20s. We are happy and love each other and have our lifestyle. I have accepted her lifestyle and her "needs" and I turned it into my lifestyle and needs. I guess the most unique thing we have is my devotion and worship of her. She utterly turns me on, so I have focused all my sexual energy to her well being and to my devotion to her. She and I have created a really unique, sexually and spiritually fulfilling dynamic. So she is my goddess, my queen. I am dutiful to her, although she does alot also.... I keep up her wardrobe (organize and clean), do laundry, her car... I clean the house and whatever I can do to serve. When she comes home I greet her and help her take her shoes off, and I sometimes wash her feet (at her direction, it really does not take long like less than 5 minutes) and offer socks or house shoes. I do have a foot fetish so she knows how to drive that circuitry in me, but also her whole body does the same to me. Honestly she is my fetish, not just her feet. Her happiness is my pleasure. I have a place in our home that has a bit of a shrine to her. I am aware that it is weird.... I do not know where I got this from but it is my "kink". I keep my shrine locked up so my mom or her mom won't see it....or anyone else. She has access to it, and at first she thought it was weird. What is my shrine? It's pictures of her, and photo albums .... it's my porn collection of her, but there is no sex pictures just nudes. I update it with pictures of her, and she often goes looks and sometimes takes pictures out that she does not like. No there are not all nudes, alot of the sexy pictures are from her instagram. LOL. It's fun. I think she loves my devotion. Anyhow that's my story. Cheers everyone.
 
As a begginers in a polyamory relationship, we actually are living exactly what is described in an article found online (Triad or V - What's More Complicated? by Laura Boyle). As a long term couple, we had some threesome experiences. But those were "experiences," and as we are both bisexual, we had the idea that a triad should be what fit us.

After many years of posting ads on some pages, one day it just happened that he met her. In the months that followed, she just became interesting as a person, and he introduced her to her. In the next few months, things just developed, there were some strange and even embarrassing situations, and in one moment, as a couple, we decided to come out and ask her if she was interested. She was not so surprised; she even thought about that as a possibility, and the decision was: "Let's think about it.".

After that, we had an interesting 2 week vacation where she joined the family (as a friend), and after that, she said yes. So now we are in a triad; we live separately, keep alive the contact and see each other when there are options to do that. Things sometimes are really complicated, we live where that kind of relationship is not accepted, so formally we are friends ... Regardless of everything, we are willing to have this and to find the way through. So for now, let's go step by step.
 
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As a begginers in a polyamory relationship, we actually are living exactly what is described in an article found online (Triad or V - What's More Complicated? by Laura Boyle). As a long term couple, we had some threesome experiences. But those were "experiences," and as we are both bisexual, we had the idea that a triad should be what fit us.

After many years of posting ads on some pages, one day it just happened that he met her. In the months that followed, she just became interesting as a person, and he introduced her to her. In the next few months, things just developed, there were some strange and even embarrassing situations, and in one moment, as a couple, we decided to come out and ask her if she was interested. She was not so surprised; she even thought about that as a possibility, and the decision was: "Let's think about it.".

After that, we had an interesting 2 week vacation where she joined the family (as a friend), and after that, she said yes. So now we are in a triad; we live separately, keep alive the contact and see each other when there are options to do that. Things sometimes are really complicated, we live where that kind of relationship is not accepted, so formally we are friends ... Regardless of everything, we are willing to have this and to find the way through. So for now, let's go step by step.
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I looked up the article:

www.readyforpolyamory.com

Triad or V - What's More Complicated?

I get a lot of people new to polyamory insisting that they must date together, or meet people together, because it "will be less complicated." I see this in comments on social media, on dating app profiles, on couple's profiles on social media (that black and red one that starts with an F...
www.readyforpolyamory.com www.readyforpolyamory.com
 
Hi. My wife and I have been together for 20 years and have recently formalised becoming polyamorous. We're in the UK. I'm getting my head around this new way of living, listening to podcasts, etc. My wife has recently started dating a female friend, so I'm going through what I think is the typical waves of "it's ok" to "OMG is it over for us?" to "am I good enough?" and everything in-between. I'm looking to join a community to go help me unwire my mono hardcoding.

BTW I'm male, 44. She's 38 years old. We have 3 kids and have what I would class as a very solid relationship (we're best friends). I don't know the girlfriend very well but so far all of the advice tells me that I should get to know the girlfriend and build a relationship with her.
 
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