You can call me Morgan here. I recently posted an Introduction as well.
33 years old, cis female, bisexual, gender fluid, kink positive. I range from presenting as high femme, to tom boy, to Dorito gremlin, to masc. Honestly, I have not had much energy to devote to understanding gender fluidity due to keeping up with other aspects of life, so I am still learning 1) what it there? 2) what is it like? and 3) how do I identify with it?
As I mentioned in my introduction, I am new to dating in a non-traditional structure, though I have known that monogamous, escalator-type relationships do not fit me for quite some time. I am on this forum to educate myself so that I can find fulfilling and equitable relationships.
I am very independent and have been mostly single my whole life. My mission is to find my niche so that I can maintain my independence, but also create deep and meaningful relationships, hopefully with longevity. I have been struggling with finding other people who understand and accept solo poly as valid, and further, who understand that I have a lot of love and care to give. Being solo poly does NOT mean that I am incapable of commitment or only desire relationships of convenience.
I am the type to take off for 2 weeks on a motorcycle road trip or get lost on purpose in the woods with my cat for a hike.
I live in the Pacific Northwest, USA and work as an ultrasound technologist and massage therapist. This year, I have a goal to apply for a visa to work abroad in ultrasound. This process could take quite some time, especially because of the pandemic. I have temporarily put dating on hold so that I can learn how to communicate more effectively about what type of dating and relationships I am looking for...my plan to work abroad is a confounding variable, but I would like to believe that there is/are someone(s), somewhere in the ENM world who would not see that as a reason to make me undatable.
I love lifting weights and it keeps my head screwed on straight. Eclectic pastimes like fire dancing and aerial silks are fun...I'd love to train in medieval weaponry (preferably pole arms). I currently play the French Horn (passably), and I would love to learn drums and metal vocals.
I look forward to chatting!