So do you all share everything about you partners with the other if they want to know or do you keep everything separate. My wife is running this as a parallel type situation and I would like a more kitchen table type thing is there a way to bridge that kind of thing or I guess I'm asking for advice on how to approach asking about the other who I actually do appreciate for making her feel some happiness in the middle of all this and I understand her partner is her partner but for me it's like this person is involved in our relationship and there is no way around that and to her and her love this is 2 separate things that don't affect each other except it does because when we have plans or I want to be spontaneous I have to ask if she is available and if I can enjoy some of her time. But even when its just us they are texting which isn't a problem unless I'm trying to be close with her and in the middle of anything if the phone buzzes she off like a flash. So second question here how do I negotiate usbonly for certain times without coming across as you can't communicate with them around me because that's not what I want either I just want us time to be us time sometimes. You know.
Like when we go for our anniversary trip that I have planned, or when we are laying there in the quiet and I'm holding her and she rolls away to see the next message can it not wait or am I being to much seriously. I'm new to this and am trying to learn and catch up . All my experience with this has been spread out in small little bits over the last decade and a half and I have no idea what I'm doing. Please help me be better at this.
Like when we go for our anniversary trip that I have planned, or when we are laying there in the quiet and I'm holding her and she rolls away to see the next message can it not wait or am I being to much seriously. I'm new to this and am trying to learn and catch up . All my experience with this has been spread out in small little bits over the last decade and a half and I have no idea what I'm doing. Please help me be better at this.