Ok so there is a way that things have been worded that's been eating at me. I don't know if I'm just being overly sensitive or if there really is something to it like my intuition is telling me. She told her kids (all teens) about her relationship with Bud but not with me. She approached it in a way that sent off alarm bells for me. She asked her kids what they would think if she was dating Bud. This is after they've spent a good deal of time getting to know us and our kids, dinners together etc. Her kids response was "He's married mom." To which she responded with "Well Emmy is ok with it."
Am I reading too much into it to feel as if she is tolerating me in order to be with Bud? She spends a lot of time with me. We hug, snuggle, talk etc. but when we're all in bed together she ends up turning toward Bud to sleep most of the time. I've been sexual with her, she doesn't give back as much though. She touches me but that's it and it's all above the waistline.
Am I reading too much into it to feel as if she is tolerating me in order to be with Bud? She spends a lot of time with me. We hug, snuggle, talk etc. but when we're all in bed together she ends up turning toward Bud to sleep most of the time. I've been sexual with her, she doesn't give back as much though. She touches me but that's it and it's all above the waistline.