In my real life I am a pretty conservative, straight-laced, plain, boring, go-with-the-flow, timid person. But I love women who are not afraid to be different, strong, outspoken-- individuals like Pink, Gwen Stefani, Kat Von D.
In my sexual life, I am a little more outgoing, open, forceful. I have a very dirty, kinky side that only my husband knows about. I like to think of that side of me as my alter-ego Kat, after Kat Von D. She is one tough, say it like it is, I-don't-care-what-people-think, take control bitch! I wish I was more like that in my real life!
As for the Tails, there are a few reasons why I chose this. I think cattails look like dicks, and my kinky side was thinking of a cat o' nine tails, though I have never used one. Might be interesting...