vinsanity0
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Thank you, Karen. That makes a lot of sense. Her second husband was very abusive. Her third husband cheated on her for three years then kicked her out of their home. She did not see it coming.
My problem is I'm not great at dealing with this stuff when I am emotionally healthy, much less now when I am a total mess. I do my best to reassure her but it doesn't seem to be working. I just don't have the energy for this right now.
Leetah, I'm not really concerned about her ethics. She is free to date whoever she wants. Right now she choses not to date anyone. I do think she is trying hard to tell me what I want to hear though. That probably has more to do with a fear of losing me than being dishonest.
I forgot to mention that, after we met up in Chicago, she got a tat with my name. This was shortly before I found out Cat had cancer and became very focused on her. So we had a very good time, she got the tat, I suddenly became preoccupied and not emotionally available. The time is flying by for me, but two months must seem like an eternity to MK.
My problem is I'm not great at dealing with this stuff when I am emotionally healthy, much less now when I am a total mess. I do my best to reassure her but it doesn't seem to be working. I just don't have the energy for this right now.
Leetah, I'm not really concerned about her ethics. She is free to date whoever she wants. Right now she choses not to date anyone. I do think she is trying hard to tell me what I want to hear though. That probably has more to do with a fear of losing me than being dishonest.
I forgot to mention that, after we met up in Chicago, she got a tat with my name. This was shortly before I found out Cat had cancer and became very focused on her. So we had a very good time, she got the tat, I suddenly became preoccupied and not emotionally available. The time is flying by for me, but two months must seem like an eternity to MK.