It's been ONE DAY that Iris has been back from her trip away and already, drama. It is largely Puck's fault this time but as always, it's having flow on effects. When it comes to her, he's an absolutely shit hinge but then that's also because as a mono person she's a rather shit polycule member. Still, this time, it is rather on him for saying he would do a thing, then not doing it (which I'd posit is that subconsciously he didn't really want to be doing it). But consequently, he's so distracted following their fight he's dropped one of our balls, too. I'm probably not the only one experiencing flow on effects, but I'm beginning to feel very unsure that I can maintain our current relationship agreements when there's always some kind of bullshit happening with Iris.
This is venting. He means too much for me to end our relationship, but with Iris back, there needs to be an adjustment of agreements so that I don't feel let down when he can't do something on this side because of yet another drama on their side.
(I'm still not over her fighting with him on our anniversary last year.)
This is venting. He means too much for me to end our relationship, but with Iris back, there needs to be an adjustment of agreements so that I don't feel let down when he can't do something on this side because of yet another drama on their side.
(I'm still not over her fighting with him on our anniversary last year.)