mmmm. engorgement. haha.
I think it's interesting how split the poll numbers are, both male and female.
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p*ssies?
meow?
To throw in my two cents, I think it has a lot to do with intent.
For example, in my mind it is possible to masturbate using someone else's body. If you are only completely focussed on your own orgasm, to me, that's masturbation. The fact that you're using your hand or someone else's body to accomplish this is irrelevent.
On the flip side, my gf & I have recently taken to masturbating together, that is, I am masturbating and she is masturbating, together on the bed, lying next to each other. Now that is fun and sex to me!
Maybe it's my Vanillaness or a definition thing, but I was under the impression that cumming and orgasm were the same, just different names. Do please share your thoughts on the subject. I'm always interested in learning new things and broadening my horizons. (honest request, no sarcasm either)
Maybe I am separating the term for my own use. But personally I can cum...which is like peeing. It happens, I am dont, "take it and go"...
I orgasm and its a totally different effect and use. Its not just a functional release of "something"...its an experience
For me they feel and react totally differently in my body.
I'll take
personally. Pengrah is a pastry chef and makes a kille molten lava cake
Can't say I have quite the same explanation-but I do differentiate orgasm and cumming.
They can happen simultaneously for me, but don't necessarily.
When I'm stimulated by someone orally I tend to orgasm much harder but there isn't a lot of fluid released. It gets so intense I can't stand it, resulting in screams and writhing from the sensitivity.
On the other hand, when I'm stimulated just right by hand, I can soak whatever is under me (which I would define as cumming), over and over and over. It's not as intense a sensation, but it still feels magnificently wonderful.
And then there's female ejaculation, but that's a whole different discussion entirely...
That could be a 100 page thread all by it's self! LOLAnd then there's female ejaculation, but that's a whole different discussion entirely...
That could be a 100 page thread all by it's self! LOL
I just received a long write up about that subject. All about HOW to achieve that spectacular event.
IMO, yes. Cyber or phone sex is sex.
Think about if you were mono and you found out your spouse was sexting w another person. Would you be upset? Jealous? There's a thread here where even a poly man was upset when his wife had phone sex with someone.
Yeah, I have a relative, a woman, who found out not only was her supposedly mono husband cybersexing, he was sending nude pix of himself to someone. That's sex! That's cheating, in my book, altho some will disagree.