Honestly I think in this man's case, it's his youth even more than his marvelous good looks that makes me less interested. He's only 28...which, to me, is barely even an adult. Maybe the layers and the depth I'm looking for, are really EXPERIENCE and layers of life lived and stories to tell. Or an energy I can take seriously as Dominant to mine in some way. Maybe I have "daddy issues" after all. Maybe Freud was right!? LOL!!
I don't know - I'm almost-35 and I don't think I could sub to a 28 year old either, unless they had INTENSE charisma of some sort and even then... I might want to play, but it'd be a completely different headspace.