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  • HI Mono thanks for the message - and it's ok (the miss spelling) I spoke with Redpepper PM and am very interested in your guys life - you seem to really parallel ours. I'm POLY wired that way and VERY thankful I can live that way now. My partner of 5 yrs is Poly by choice and he has another WIRED girlfriend (that lives an hour away) and then I have a mono bf(similiar to you) that lives with us. We are not an open relationship persay but we are not closed to possibilities.

    Your Welcome - and it's always a pleasure reading your posts
    Elaine
    I couldn't have imagined a more beautiful family. Best wishes to all of you for a long happy future.
    Mono, nice album. Nice to finally get to put faces with the names. Thanks for including me on your list!
    Doing rather well thanks. Hope you and yours are well too. Glad to be selected for your album. :)
    Hey man, I hope your birthday celebration was great. I have been thinking about you and RP and hoping the kinks are getting worked out with your current issues- sounds really painful but you are both so brave!
    Strange for me to feel this way, maybe, but I care about what happens with you all and feel like you are friends of mine, even though it's all text.
    Sending lots of hugs to you and yours.
    Happy Birthday!
    I'm being induced this evening so my daughter may share your day! Do you think you can handle sharing a birthday? Or should I cross my legs until after midnight? ;)
    i know it's a day early...But, i wanted to wish you a happy birthday now, so i would not miss it....

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
    Hey Mono - you don't know the answer to my question do you? I just joined, and made the silly mistake of setting my username as my own (doh...) any idea what I can do do change it? (ps - I'm mono too....) I tried everything - seems you can change passwords etc, but usernames?? not sure....
    Well hello!

    Sorry it took me so long to see your message but thank you for the hello. You used to be right down the road, small world.
    Mornin Mono! I surely will pass it on to D. How are you all doing today?

    I am really sorry to hear about all your rough stuff this week. We've had a doozy of a week in a different way-even though your issues are quite different, reading what is going on with your family, I am struck with how beautiful it is to have people to love you through the hard times. The most painful times can produce this profound sense of joy- when you really need the ones you love- there they are, smiling at you through the heartache.
    Hey - I didn't want to hijack my own thread by going off topic...
    "I know plenty of guys I won't broach the topic with just because of thier macho homophobic personalities. I mention homophobic because although I am not bi-sexual, to many guys I know sleeping with Redpepper who in turn sleeps with other men is equivalent to a homosexual act. Stupid I know, but the case none the less.

    These are the same guys that would probably have no problem having casual sex with lots of women and don't see an issue with that....ironic."

    Yes, I find that totally sexist. When Ouroboros and I discuss sex, he has no problem with being in the SAME room with me and another man. He is completely comfortable in his sexuality in that way, and in my mind, that is VERY MANLY. :)

    Judging women, or you, for that matter is NOT manly. That is sexist and an outward expression of cowardice in my opinion. So, way to go Mono - for doing what makes you happy.

    :)
    haha - I see you checked me out. I too am checking you out. I find your situation an inspiration and I hope that I can learn a lot from your posts about being monogamous with a poly person. I am really struggling with it right now, myself. I know it can work!
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