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I'm a career scientist, and all things science still fascinate me. I noticed today that there are three birds building a nest together on my balcony. Starting a funky thread for any articles or anecdotal evidence related to polyamory in nature 🌲🦅🐻🌴🐟🌊

Hello! I've posted on here before but it's been awhile. Briefest background ever: I've been married to Joe for 5 years. He's a couple years older than me. When we started dating, we met and started hanging out with Pea, a guy 2 years younger than me. We're all still in our twenties. We've lived...

hello! My husband (Joe) is leaving for 3 weeks coming up. im meeting with him halfway through. during the week and a half that he is solo traveling, i planned a trip with my boyfriend (Pea). originally it was just going to be me visiting central america alone, but joe and i agreed that pea...

hopefully this is in the right place! maybe more of a general poly discussion? but it's something ive thought about a lot in reference to my specific situation. Two partners and I live together. In the near future (i.e. once I graduate) I am looking forward to making more $$ and not having...

I wanted to put these thoughts somewhere, and I'm welcoming advice/thoughts so I figured it would be better suited for the relationships corner. For anyone who doesn't know my story, I live with 2 partners. My husband, Joe and I have been married for 4 years. Pea and I have been dating for...

Hi all! I posted on here awhile ago asking others what coming out is like, how to know when you're ready, and got a lot of really good resources. I'm in a stage where I feel both my relationships are on pretty equal footing (I've now been poly as long as I've been mono :0 ! ) and have been more...

Joe is my husband of 3 years, and P is my partner of nearly 2 years. There are many reasons why I haven't gotten along with P's sister. We're really just incompatible humans; I find her to be selfish and high maintenance and I get the idea that she thinks I'm too emotional. P and Joe refer to...

Figured I'd start a blog on here! The name is really just because I'm still learning a lot about myself while realizing how little I have control over. Plus I'm originally from a beach town and really miss the ocean. Anyway.... Working a lot on doing things by myself/for myself lately. I...

Hey gang :) I am getting to a point in my life (and my newer relationship with P) where I've started investing and planning for the future (i.e. possibly having kids, building a community, etc). I was wondering if there were any polycules (hope that's not a stupid word to use) that have planned...

My boyfriend (P) spent the past week away with his family. He had no service, so while I was in town dealing with our roommates wanting to know the details of our relationship (we live with my husband and his two friends--see last blog post), he was enjoying himself and I guess also having a...

I live with my husband, my boyfriend and two of my husbands childhood friends (we'll call them Cris and Larry). Sounds like the beginning of a really bad joke, because it is! Larry told my husband yesterday that he saw me and boyfriend naked on the couch together (I remember the incident, it was...

I feel like being a hinge can be a lot to juggle. I'm getting my PhD right now and just maneuvering adult life in general; my goals, dreams, hobbies, making friends, etc. and there are times when having two relationships feels overwhelming. How do hinges out there keep their entire lives from...

Lol I know the title is super dramatic but that's how I'm feeling. Today I woke up and J (husband) was texting P(boyfriend)’s sister a playlist that he made for her, and they text all the time. (context: P’s sister dated a really good friend of J’s and that’s how they know each other. They’re...

Hello! I have to drive to Salt Lake to get my scuba certification, and was really wanting my bf to accompany me (it's an 8 hour drive each way, I'll be diving both days I have to drive so I'll be pretty tired). J (husband) is working, but P (bf) conveniently has off. Does anyone have...

For a while I was searching for this set point I could look at and be like "whew I made it" as in adjusting to loving two people; really 'figuring things out'. I think the past few months I've realized there is no definable milestone in which I'll know that... It's as if I was expecting more...

Hello! Life has been great for several months now, but that may in part have been due to a lack of communication. These past few months, Joe (my husband) and I have been doing awesome. We've been speaking each other's love languages; I have been doing little acts of love for him and he's been...

Hey all:) I was in my really good friend from high school's wedding this past week. She is really happy which was awesome and it was great to see her; covid kept us from making plans for the last couple years. I'm writing about it here because it made me feel lots of feelings. There was a...

Hello all! I am wondering if anyone has experiences to share on coming out as poly, whether it's with friends or family etc. (not to a monogamous partner.. thankfully I've already done that 😅). I have been sitting on this for a bit and while I don't personally think I am ready, I am curious...

Hey everyone! I have been feeling really awesome lately and just wanted to share. I had a lot of anxiety about experiencing/having to work through jealousy if having to see either of my partners being intimate with other women... this came partially from a friend of mine not taking my poly...

Hello everyone! I've posted a couple times on here so I'll try to keep the context of my situation brief. I'm in a relatively new poly relationship (less than a year), and as my husband is still getting used to the idea of me loving another man (we'll call my husband Joe and this other man...