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It's time to start a new blog. This is my third blog on this website. The first was detailing my time on a Homestead and attempting to be in a polygamous type arrangement. It was great while it lasted, but ended spectacularly and dramatically. The second was me trying to put my life back...

Not so much to do with polyamory, but my main partner has severe sleep apnea and snores to rattle the windows. Not to mention he stops breathing over and over and it worries me. He is overnight 3 nights a week, most weekends. So, although I love to cuddle him all night long, I am not getting any...

I am a regular here. I am an experienced poly woman, but I have no experience with this situation. Seeking advice. Background: I dated Jay for several months before we broke up about 1.5 years ago. He knew I was poly, but at that time I dated him I did not have other partners and was not...

So Thanksgiving was ugly and beautiful. And it shows why poly works for some of us. I have a background of severe trauma, and struggle with my emotions sometimes. Yesterday I had a C-PTSD emotional storm, triggered by the holidays and some other stuff. I was really hurting. I even temporarily...

Anyone else find the holidays difficult? Thanksgiving is going to be difficult and lonely for me this year. I love my chosen family but I won't be with any of them. Partner A is spending Thanksgiving with his wife, recreating their honeymoon weekend. Partner B is spending Thanksgiving with his...

I have a first date set up for tomorrow with someone that I can't quite tell if there is a catch to this?? I'm on the spectrum so I have a hard time sometimes with reading a situation. This one seems to easy and that makes me nervous. :ROFLMAO: He has an amazing dating profile. He is long-time...

This is the new chapter of my life after ending a triad situation. My poly history is outlined in the first entry of my old blog. So, I'm back home, safe, and still bits and pieces of the triad come forth. Red flags I totally glossed over. The slow water torture of the relationship getting more...

Seeking personal advice about STI testing--- I just exited a relationship where we were both exclusive. I am entering a new relationship with "A." He is newly poly, has been exclusive with his spouse for many years. His wife is bi and is exploring poly (but not with me-- I am straight). She has...

See my sig and Blog for more details . . . I would consider us more Polygamy than Polyamory in some ways. We are not seeking any others into our family circle for the foreseeable future. I am living in a tiny home on their property. I have a young child who is loving and bright. I have 50/50...

See my sig... We call ourselves a triad, but it's probably not the correct term. Meow and I are not romantically involved, but we are very emotionally close. If she were the cuddly type we'd probably cuddle, but she's not touchy-feely that way. But, we share and talk and chat all day long, as...

Sir is my Dom. I'm his sub. He's very good at the dynamics. We both like this. I feel very cherished and cared for. His wife is a very conventional vanilla-type wife, and they do not have these dynamics. He takes care of her very well, too, and she's happy. We all care for each other very much...

I've been poly off and on for most of my adult life. I was in a triad with a married couple several years ago. It blew up due to not being well managed. But when it was good it was very very good! I realized that I would love to be in a triad again long term. Fast forward, several months ago, I...

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