Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

Checked out my new digs today. Very cool! Lots of space and a place to pamper my other girlfriend-- my motorbike. :p

22 months by the time I move in. Who would have thought we would get this far?
 
Discovering a different side of Possibility....

mmmmmmmmmmmm

mrawr!
 
I have a wonderful, caring fiancé who is willing to indulge and discuss my 10,000 steps ahead mind, which thinks about things like living together, moving, children, etc. without panicking that these are things I want RIGHT NOW.

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I have a wonderful, caring fiancé who is willing to indulge and discuss my 10,000 steps ahead mind, which thinks about things like living together, moving, children, etc. without panicking that these are things I want RIGHT NOW.

:eek:

Thats true talent. Congrats on such a great guy. :)
 
A week ago, I couldn't stand to think of her, and now Cricket and I are working out plans to hang out together. I had my first full night of Karma being out with her, and I had no issues. Well, until I realised I couldn't lift my arm to wash my own hair. I no longer see us as on opposing sides. We're on the same team. We just need to get to know each other.
 
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A week a go I couldn't stand to think of her, and now Cricket and I are working out plans to hang out together. I had my first full night of Karma being out with her, and I had no issues. Well...until I realised I couldn't lift my arm to wash my own hair :D.

I know longer see us on opposing sides. We're on the same team. We just need to get to know eachother.

Yea! Happy for you my dear! Hope to see you in PA!;)
 
I had a chance to talk to my friend E. She asked if we could meet this next Monday. I have told her the depth of the relationship that I want and that Im not in the market for a FB. I think she is good with that and is wanting to talk about what that means in regards to her and I.

Im hopeful and excited.:) Im really looking forward to seeing her again.
 
I had a chance to talk to my friend E. She asked if we could meet this next Monday. I have told her the depth of the relationship that I want and that Im not in the market for a FB. I think she is good with that and is wanting to talk about what that means in regards to her and I.

Im hopeful and excited.:) Im really looking forward to seeing her again.

:)
 
Dorking out with an old, classic computer game: Master of Orion 2.

Haven't really felt 'awake' all day, probably residual weirdness after losing control of the truck and spinning out on an entrance ramp last night. I didn't get to sleep until 11:30. My body was tired, but my brain wouldn't shut off. I still can't figure out how the hell I didn't roll the truck during the spin.

Gah. Video game. Geekdom. My brain can handle this. I am in a happy little dork-coma. :)
 
I have been feeling crummy. Sick with a cold that has taken up residence in my sinuses, emotionally crappy, and just plain blah.

Having not one, but two loving partners is a blessing.
 
Those of you feeling yucky, I hope you feel better soon.

As for me, I'm so filled with love & happiness today I don't know what to do with it all.
 
Happiness is kissing PN good night and then going downstairs to be kissed goodnight by Mono as I snuggle into bed. I love my new room and love even more the fact that we have worked so hard to make it happen that we can all be together.
 
Another Westchester Update

Going back to work on Monday! Things are also much improved between me and my other half right now. We are back to being affectionate and with good communication, both of which were always features of our relationship before Jr. was in the mix. Once I see how the back to work thing affects us all, not to mention that I anticipate needing to spend a lot of time catching up in knowledge for the workplace, we will be in more of a place to see what we want/need in terms of additional emotional ties.
 
We have worked so hard this year to get where we are today. Anyone that has read our story in the past year will know the trials and tribulations of how we got here. It started with my mum accusing Mono of abusing our boy, so we had to come out to her, thinking that it would make it better and it would be the end of her wrath. It was just the beginning of a long journey, from pain, confusion, disbelief and hatred from my mum to acceptance, welcoming, appreciation and to some extent, love for Mono on her part. She is a whole other person and is tentatively accepting that we, as three, are working. She sees how my boy is affected and sees that I am more happy and calm. With time, she will see that we are okay and that this works. All in good time.
 
Poly life is great. Vanilla is fine. Brain floating somewhere is Sunday. No expectations normally.

Happy Canadian Thanksgiving tomorrow, to those of you who celebrate it.
 
We just had a great Thanksgiving supper! Redpepper, Polynerdist, their son, her brother and his girlfriend, their friends and Redpepper's parents were there. What a huge difference a year has made in all our lives.

We enjoyed a great meal and then just chatted for awhile. Not much else to say other than I am truly thankful for the gifts I have in my life. :)
 
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You had supper at noon? That's a bit early. And I thought our 4:00 "supper" qualified as "late lunch." :p

I'm getting ready for that, by the way. I can't wait, but I'm stressed out at the idea of being around so much family, none of which know about it. It sucks not being able to talk about my boyfriend, or how Rag's going through a bad phase due to love problems.
 
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