Hi I am new to polyamory if that is what my marriage is heading towards.
I live in the UK and have not found a forum with fellow UK residents .
I absolutely love my husband, the only man I have slept with but we are facing some issues.
My sexdrive for the last 6 years has been very low due to medications I need to take. My husband I will call BB for this thread. Well he has Been very patient with me.
I have a best friend who at one point was in a relationship with my brother and produced a Niece for me. That relationship didn't work and ended 8 years ago.
I will call her KH for this. Well she continued to visit me with my niece and we became very close. Closer than a best friend but not a lover if that makes sense.
Previously we had a three some and was enjoyed by all involved. Although it didn't happen again. Our friendship just grew stronger.
Recently BB expressed he was struggling with the lack of a healthy sex life. He brought up my friendship with KH and maybe we could arrange for her to help with this. Initially I was apprehensive as I didn't want to risk losing her as my closest friend I have ever had. I absolutely adore KH and I want my BB to be happy and content.
I never knew there was a name for this polyamory?
I have read a lot online about jealousy and dosand donts.
I am conflicted I want BB to be happy because he says he loves me and doesn't want our marriage to end.
We have discussed how this will work. Will he have sex with KH and enjoy it more than me? Will that lead to something else.
I am confused because yesterday we had very passionate sex. The best it has ever been.
I guess I'm on here to understand things better with help from people in a similar situation..
I live in the UK and have not found a forum with fellow UK residents .
I absolutely love my husband, the only man I have slept with but we are facing some issues.
My sexdrive for the last 6 years has been very low due to medications I need to take. My husband I will call BB for this thread. Well he has Been very patient with me.
I have a best friend who at one point was in a relationship with my brother and produced a Niece for me. That relationship didn't work and ended 8 years ago.
I will call her KH for this. Well she continued to visit me with my niece and we became very close. Closer than a best friend but not a lover if that makes sense.
Previously we had a three some and was enjoyed by all involved. Although it didn't happen again. Our friendship just grew stronger.
Recently BB expressed he was struggling with the lack of a healthy sex life. He brought up my friendship with KH and maybe we could arrange for her to help with this. Initially I was apprehensive as I didn't want to risk losing her as my closest friend I have ever had. I absolutely adore KH and I want my BB to be happy and content.
I never knew there was a name for this polyamory?
I have read a lot online about jealousy and dosand donts.
I am conflicted I want BB to be happy because he says he loves me and doesn't want our marriage to end.
We have discussed how this will work. Will he have sex with KH and enjoy it more than me? Will that lead to something else.
I am confused because yesterday we had very passionate sex. The best it has ever been.
I guess I'm on here to understand things better with help from people in a similar situation..