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"Polyamorous" people looking for bisexual females willing to be exclusive to their couples are misrepresenting polyamory. They're usually trying to save a failing relationship by introducing another person which is not real polyamory. It's sexist and unfair for the man to be non monogamous but...

A myth about polyamorous people is we have no standards. Though I want more than one woman, there's some women I won't get in a relationship with. I liked this female teacher years ago until she threatened a teen. She said "how about I bash your skull against the wall!" While he taunted me, I...

Here's why most movies are garbage now. 1) The story-telling is unoriginal. It's the same formula like heroes defeat villains. Same themes like "Believe in yourself" or "you must save the world." No one wants to cross boundaries anymore for fear of getting canceled. No one wants to make movies...

1 Cor. 7:2 "But because of sexual immoralities, each man is to have his own (heautou) wife, and each woman is to have her own (Idion) husband." Modern Christians use this verse to condemn non monogamy but when you look at the original Greek, it supports non monogamy. The word for "own" or...

The best way to get your ex back is to not talk to them after the break up. Begging them to come back, writing letters, texting, calling, etc. only push your ex away because you're not respecting boundaries. When you're completely silent, women get anxious and wonder "does he still love me? Is...

To survive a relationship, you need to control your anxiety. When you get anxious, you start doing things that destroy the relationship. When i get anxious for example, i get paranoid. I'm afraid my partner is cheating, lying, or in an accident. I tend to have outbursts and interrogate. I listen...

I realized anxiety is the best explanation for why most relationships end. People give reasons good or bad for why relationships end, but they're not convincing. They don't explain everything on why partners were acting the way they were. People acting out past family traumas and their fear of...

When you're in a relationship, you gotta control your anxiety and not try to control your partner out of jealousy. When i was still with my ex, she talked to another guy who was her best friend. I got really anxious and paranoid she was gonna cheat. I never asked her to stop talking to other...

To understand why your partner is avoiding you, think about what happened in their childhood and the last conversations you had. That should tell you everything. Long ago, I tried to court 1 girl. She told me about her traumatic childhood and how her family issues still hurt her. In our last...

I've done a bit of scientific research and found we're hardwired for more than one partner. Here's a few facts I've learned. * A survey was conducted on 16,000 people from every continent. Participants said they wanted more than one sexual partner...

This is my guide on how to build attraction and get in a relationship. Be friendly - Be friendly. Smile, laugh, tell jokes, flirt, have good hygiene, etc. Alot of women open up to guys who do this. No one wants to hang out with someone who is uptight, angry, toxic, and always serious. Be...

I found polyamory has several benefits to my mental health. It reduces anxiety - People like me tend to get really anxious when it comes to one woman. I start imagining the worst case scenarios when we're away for too long. I get paranoid and think "maybe she's talking to other men.. maybe she...

I got to know several women from dating groups. It was at a time when I thought I was monogamous. When I had time to think, I realized I wasn't. When I came out as polyamorous, i told them about it. They were shocked and deeply hurt. My ex was devastated because she wanted to get back in a...

Many of the arguments Christians use to say polyamory is sinful are not based on the Bible. In this post, I'll explain why. One of the most common arguments is Adam and Eve. Christians try to use Adam and Eve as a prototype for how all marriages should be. The problem is the ancient Hebrews did...

Here are reasons why I like polyamory. You can have more than one partner - Polyamory allows more than one partner to meet your needs. I love women in general from diverse backgrounds. You can get more love and support from your partners' strengths. If one partner can't meet your needs, another...

Coming out as polyamorous was very hard. I got to know a few women and told them I wanted a monogamous relationship. It was during a time when I thought I was monogamous. After realizing I was polyamorous, I told them about it. They didn't know how to react. They were shocked. Some were passive...

I used to be a hardcore supporter of monogamy. Ever since I was a kid though, I wanted more than one woman. I had a crush on Velma from Scooby Doo then Daphne. Finally, I thought it was best to just like both of them lol. I also wanted to go to Japan and impress Japanese women. As I got older...

Realizing polyamorous relationships might be for me. Ever since I was a kid, I loved women from diverse backgrounds. As a teen, I secretly wanted to be with many women. I denied it because I thought monogamy was the only "honorable way" to have a relationship. When I'm chasing one woman, I get...